Jesus says no.
June 24th, 2009It’s easy to feel we ought to be a little bit heroic in the Christian life. Go the extra mile here, turn the other cheek there; invite the homeless poor to take up lodgings in every spare cupboard in the house.
We easily feel guilty when we say ‘no’ to those in need. Or if we’re not up to saying no, we struggle with all sorts of other feelings of resentment and exhaustion, if we allow the demands of other people to surge ceaselessly over our heads like waves over a drowning man.
In Sunday’s Gospel reading (28th June), Jesus demonstrates a different attitude: in fact, a rigorous and startling setting of boundaries against those who would overwhelm him.
It begins with Jesus getting away from from a scene of exhausting conflict by putting the width of the lake behind him (11 miles!) A great crowd gathers. On some occasions, Jesus draws another boundary, by speaking to them from his boat. Here he stays on the lakeside; and immediately, a new demand. A girl is dying; a father is desperate. Will Jesus come?
The answer is yes, but as Jesus walks along he is pressed by the crowds. Like today’s celebrity, everyone wants a piece of him. Now there is a third demand: the woman with the haemorrhage, seeking healing. Wriggling through the crowd she touches Jesus’ cloak and is healed. Here Jesus stops, and demands to know who has drawn forth his healing power in this way. He is unwilling to let the crowd simply take from him, as if he is some divine dispenser. He draws a boundary: if you want healing, you need to show your face.
While he is still speaking, a fourth demand: to give up his attempt to save the girl, the daughter of Jairus the synagogue ruler. She is dead: “Why trouble the teacher any further?” Pushed around by others’ agendas, Jesus draws a boundary here, too. Ignoring the messengers of doom, and refusing the crowd their wish to follow him, he goes on to Jairus’ house accompanied only by Peter, James and John. Once at the house, still more boundary-setting is required. The hired mourners - wailing melodramatically one minute, laughing at him the next - are kicked out of the house, so that only the child’s mother and father are present. And then the seventh and final boundary is drawn; the ultimate ‘no’. In this final boundary, Jesus says ‘no’ to death itself. ‘Talitha cum’ - little girl, rise. And so she does.
The lines Jesus draws are not so that he can have an easy life: they are drawn because he wants to hold back the crowding demands of others’ agendas, in order to pursue his true vocation. Saying ‘no’ can be awkward, especially when others present their needs as opportunities to do God’s work. But in saying ‘no’ to pressure, we can also be saying ‘yes’ to vocation - the calling of a leisurely, gracious, spacious God.

Summer is approaching, and I have to renew my passport. To ensure that the person in my passport photo really is me, I have to get someone to countersign the photo, to swear that the owner of this ugly mug is me, the whole me, and nothing but the me.